[Right_to_die] Judith Coats -- vital 'backroom fighter' for our movement dies
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Mon Sep 7 10:23:22 PDT 2009
OBITUARY
The American right to die movement lost one of its most significant
workers when Mrs Judith Coats died on 3 September after 30 years of
activism. She was 70.
Judy had watched me debating on the Phil Donahue television show in l980
at a time when she was fighting Hodgkins Disease, stage 3B, considered
terminal. She joined the Hemlock Society almost immediately, but still
took huge treatments for her disease -- and lived.
Judy was born in Milwaukie in l939 and attended Spencerian Business
College in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, receiving a
one-year degree in 1958. She married Francis Coats in l964 and they had
two children.
Throughout married life, family mattered most, although Judy found time
to write newspaper
articles and produce newsletters. She was a commuunity activist par
excellance, always involved in local political and educational issues
and campaigns. In
later years the right-to-die efforts became the strong second role.
Judy was convener of the first meeting of Hemlock of Michigan on 31
March l990 when it was formed as a chapter of the Hemlock Society USA.
She had arranged that Dr. Jack Kevorkian be the first speaker.
He changed his mind about speaking when he asked Hemlock members if he
could help his first case, Janet Adkins, using his suicide machine, to
die in one of their homes.
All declined, fearing repercussions, and wondering why Kevorkian did not
use his own home. When Kevorkian asked Judy for the use of her home,
and she also refused, he canceled his Hemlock speaking engagement.
Eventually Janet Adkins was helped by Kevorkian to die in the back of
his old VW van at a campsite on 4 June l990.
In 2002 the Michigan Hemlock chapter wound up, and Judy transferred her
loyalty and work to the new Final Exit Network. She was a director, then
treasurer and finally newsletter editor. She could rarely attend
meetings because the treatments for the Hodgins Disease had left her
spine weakened and painful.
Yet Judy beavered away from home, using telephone, internet, conference
telephone calls and the newsletter to play a vital part in the Network.
"Judy's contribution to the Board was the voice of reason, as well as
commitment," said Rosalie Guttman, a Network colleague.
In February this year, Detroit Metro police knocked on her door and
demanded all the financial records of the Final Exit Network. She was
able to refuse because they had recently been transferred to a newly
elected treasurer. Judy declined to answer any of their questions and
she heard nothing more. (This inquiry was part of the simultaneous
nationwide sweep by Georgia Bureau of Investigation, local police units
and FBI of all officials of the Network. Four Network volunteers were
charged with assisting a suicide in Georgia and expect to come to trial
next year.)
Her last newsletter, No. 15, Spring 2009, was her finest. The mixture of
hard news and compassionate story-telling received much praise and
brought many contributions to the Network's funds.
Judy suffered a severe stroke on 19 August and died in hospital on 3
September.
On Saturday, Sept 26 there will be a memorial gathering/service to honor
Judy. It will start at 11 am for friends and relatives to meet and
chat, then a service starting at noon, followed by lunch. It will be at
the Rivercrest Hall at the intersection of Avon and Livernois Roads in
Rochester Hills, Michigan, two miles from her house.
----Derek Humphry. 09.08.09
www.finalexitlibertyfund.org
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